Just got back from the
optometrist, eyes are doing okay, bit dry and need to use the tear thingofabob,
but it is the season AND the sky filled with smoke. One of the things my doc said was to be sure
he knew I was taking a certain medication as it can affect eyes, thus far it
hasn’t done anything to mine.
Teresa’s air-conditioner is
helping keep the living area of the house cool and we can’t ask for much more
than that. We had hoped that the unit
would be fixed today, but looks like it will be tomorrow – he had to order some
parts.
2 Corinthians
10:17-18 But he that glorieth, let him glory in the
Lord.
18 For not he that
commendeth himself is approved, but whom the Lord
commendeth.
Pride, a self-serving attribute
that we would do better without, or would we?
Now I believe there are
different levels of pride: a
satisfaction with oneself, happily taking pride in ones work; proper perspective
of one’s ability and achievements; and the one that causes us some serious
problems, feeling of superiority where we believe we are better than others.
None of us wants to walk into a
surgeon’s office and talk to a doctor who will hold our lives in his hands as he
takes a scalpel in hand and cuts us open, saying ‘I am okay; I am pretty sure I
can do this.’
We want them to have confidence
and a sense of pride in their ability to do the job. We want to feel we are under the knife of the
best person we can find.
In the world we find many people
who feel ‘blowing your own horn’ is the only way to success. If ‘you don’t blow your horn no one else
will,’ is a frequent reason given for self-promotion.
When does confidence in our own
ability become arrogance? How can we do
our job if we don’t have pride in our work?
I have mulled this over in the
past, and I am not sure I am any closer to a valid answer.
I have always been
competitive. I worked hard to gain
promotions and had to self-proclaim my abilities to run for office. Yet, I knew that I could not do it by myself
– I needed help from others. I was
fortunate, I did have people who believed in me and supported me – they told
others they felt I could do a good job.
Confidence in our ability to get
the job done is important. We need to
show that we what it takes to accomplish a task. Even competition may not be wrong, if it is
done in the spirit of doing the best we can without undermining our
‘opponents.’ And if we win, we do not
‘lord it over the others’ and if we lose we don’t whine and complain about
it.
We want to do the best we can,
as we improve that will lead to confidence in our abilities and pride in our
workmanship keeps us from doing half way measures on our tasks.
It can be a danger; we become so
enamored with our abilities we forget that God gave us the skills to
succeed. We may have worked, studied and
put in long hours to hone those skills, but the base came from God.
I was watching a show some time
ago about a priest who wanted to gain more credit for his work. I thought to myself, I would do the same
thing, if I was a priest I would strive to be a Bishop.
Both the priest in the film and
I were looking at self-gratification and not being submissive to God. There are those who have qualities that are
far better than others in a higher position; it can be daunting to think they
could do better but are being hampered by prejudice or fear by the other of
overtaking them. If we are not careful,
we can become bitter and spend more time complaining than actually working.
It is bad enough when that kind
of competitive spirit is in the world, but it is far worse when it enters our
spiritual relationship with God.
While we may not realize it we
act as the Pharisee that though so much of himself:
Luke 18:11-14 The Pharisee stood
and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are,
extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this
publican.
12 I fast twice in the
week, I give tithes of all that I possess.
13 And the publican,
standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote
upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a
sinner.
14 I tell you, this man
went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that
exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be
exalted.
We want to grow in Christ, we
want to have Christ shining in our eyes and countenance – but we don’t want to
look at our relationship with God as being more intense or better than others
because we think we are so righteous and take ‘pride’ in that fact......
It is easy for us to get too
full or ourselves, easy for us to feel God performs great things (or anything)
because I am who I am – wise, humble, working hard and other things that make it
about us and not about God.
When applying for a position, it
is important to give the hiring authority information about ourselves, what we
have accomplished in the past, even for spiritual posts. But it must be done with humility and not a
haughty spirit and attitude.
We want to be the best at what
we do, but not at the expense of demonstrating that Christ is within us and our
accomplishments are a result of Him helping us.
We don’t use Him as a crutch, we use Him as a coach and teacher helping
us to grow so that we can help others do their best for Him.
Later, Art :-)
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