From time to time I thought I
would share, in addition to my daily thought on bible verses, some stories of
people who have made a difference in my life.
Most, but not all, are Christians and some are just unique characters I
have encountered. In addition I will
sometimes share some of my experiences as a law enforcement officer, trusting
you will be entertained by these stories and people in my life.
This first one is on Norman, my
brother-in-love as my mother-in-love used to express it. She always called me Norm’s little
brother.
For most of my teenage life I
thought I would be an accountant. I
enjoyed the challenge of working with figures in that manner – I wasn’t good at
advanced math like algebra, geometry, etc., but I seemed to be able to work with
journals and debits and credits.
That is, until I spent some time
with a man that was an accountant and really didn’t care for it. He worked with my father and was trained by
Dad to be a manager in a retail store which dealt with propane and associated
products. As I talked with him I
realized that being stuck behind a desk for hours was not going to work for
me.
Later, as I was working my way
up in a large grocery chain, I realized that wasn’t what interested me
either. I had thought about becoming a
minister, but did not truly feel the call of the ministry on my life; my service
to Him would be done through my life’s work at something else – something I had
not yet determined.
But I also knew that my service
to Him was separate from whatever else I would do and no matter what it was, I
owed Him that service. I was, and am not
a silent witness for Him in any of my professions once I accepted Him as my
Savior.
During this time I met my wife
to be, Carla and her family. Her one and
only brother, Norman, was a police officer for a department in California. While Norm did not care for the politics
within the department, he did enjoy working as an officer and his enthusiasm for
the work came through as he talked about his experiences.
He peaked my interest in law
enforcement. More for the excitement and
energy of the job, than, what I learned and experienced later, as a career in
helping others and a ministry to God.
One day I went to The Dalles
Police Department and talked with an officer.
He recommended that I join the Reserves; I would be able to ride with an
officer and participate in police activities.
It would allow me to get an inside view of what it was like to be an
officer and not have to give up my career with the grocery chain only to find I
didn’t like police work. After all, not
only did I have an opportunity at a decent position, but I had a wife and
daughter to support.
I followed his advice. I was a reserve officer for about a year when
I decided that this is what I wanted to do, I felt I had found my calling. I took the tests, passed them and was hired
as a Police Officer. I took a
significant cut in pay (and ended up working part time for that grocery chain to
make ends meet) and Carla was concerned about how I might face a person like my
dad.
Dad had one time told a judge,
after pleading not guilty to a traffic citation (he had actually been going much
faster and felt the officer had just guessed his speed) that he did not think
much of the intelligence of the officer.
He was found not guilty.
I handled that kind of
criticism, for the ‘most’ part.
But it was Norman that got me
interested.
Norman is a Christian. He was good at his job with the Police
Department, but it was in a large metropolitan area and he much preferred the
quiet life of country living – so he came back home to Redmond whenever he could
to help recharge his batteries. Carla
and I always went down there when he was home.
Thus I was able to spend some quality time with him.
The two of us would spend hours
out in the back country, hunting or target practicing. He had worked for the forest service as a
young man and knew certain parts of the country surrounding Redmond very
well. I enjoyed these hours spent with
him.
Carla’s family became my
family. They took me in and loved me,
helping me with my struggles and showing me Christian love and how to live a
life for Christ. Norm became the big
brother I never had and taught me much about living a Christian life as an adult
and later as a Police Officer.
To give you an idea of the
quality of the man: He met his wife,
Letty, here in the states. She is from
the Philippines and was the first of her family to come here. The two fell in love, but her father refused
to give his blessing to the marriage.
She was not going to go against her father’s wishes. She respected him and also knew if she didn’t
then she would never be able to bring her siblings to the states, a goal they
all shared.
Don’t get the idea that Letty is
a timid lady. She was a CPA in the
Philippines before coming here. Once in
the USA, she ran the office for the owner of the largest construction company in
the world - supervising several people and responsible for millions of
dollars. She is a successful
professional, intelligent and outspoken.
Now, Norm spent a large part of
his time in the Philippines while in the Army – 82nd Airborne and Ranger. He knew the country better than some natives
as he would spend his weekends traveling the back country. He knew and respected the culture.
He wasn’t going to take a long
distance no for an answer. He and Letty
flew back there – before they came back to the USA, the couple had her father’s
blessings. Quite a feat if you know the
culture, Americans were not well thought of..... Over the next several years all of her
siblings and her mother and father came to the states with the help of the two
of them.
Obviously, he made an
impression. Art :-)
(to be continued)
John 15:9-10 As the Father hath loved
me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.
10 If ye keep my
commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's
commandments, and abide in his love.
All of them, Jesus? I can handle though shalt not steal, or
murder, or lie or take your name in vain, those kinds of things, but ALL of
them?
All of them, Jesus? All of them?
Pray for those that hate me and have tried my patience, told lies about
me and tried to damage my reputation?
All of them, Jesus? The man in the alley that is so inebriated he
has soiled himself and is abusive and obnoxious to anyone that comes near to
him? I have to show your love to
HIM?
All of them, Jesus? Must I really love my neighbor? He is such a jerk always finding ways to make
life miserable for me and my family.
All of them, Jesus? Does that mean I have to tell others about you?
And the list can go on and on;
and what I struggle with might be one thing today and another tomorrow. Why is it that we stray away from God? Why can’t we keep on task and never be
concerned about obedience – so we are always in tune with Him?
Why can’t we be like Jesus,
confident in our walk with the Lord, never allowing anything to interfere with
that walk?
We allow too many things to
disrupt our lives, we cannot focus on one or two things, because there are so
many other things demanding our attention.
We have family obligations, work obligations, obligations to friends
sometimes we don’t have a single minute, let alone an hour or two to spend time
alone with God.
When we take time to really see
what we have around us we see the benefits that God has given us, the beauty of
our friends and family, the ability to earn a living and take care of our loved
ones, the beauty of the world we live in, the Love God has bestowed upon us and
the Grace He has given to us.
If we are too busy to spend a
few minutes with God, then we are too busy.
I know, I am retired and have much more time than many of you reading
this, but we really do need to prioritize our time. Even for an ole retired grumpy guy there are
times of so much to do and not enough time to do it in.
During those times we need time
with God more than ever. He helps calm
the soul and mind and allows us to put things in perspective. What may be the driving force demanding our
time right now, if looked at through God’s eyes, can be set aside for a few
moments to allow us to seek His help.
Our world has become so
complicated it is difficult to find a quiet moment. I was watching a car advertisement on
TV. It promises wi-fi in the car so you
are always connected with the world. We
need less connection with the world and more connection with our God – He has
ALWAYS been available to us 24 hours a day, every single day of our lives.
We need to shut off the TV, the
Cell Phone, the computers – or whatever else we may be using to connect to the
internet and the friends on it, and focus on Him. We may find that we will not be as rattled in
difficult situations, we will be able to listen to Him and obey Him, following
His commandments.
Our love of friends and family;
our need to be in communications with them, or just entertaining ourselves
should never overshadow our love for God.
If we place Him first then the rest will sort itself out.
Psalm
116:12-14 What shall I render unto the Lord for
all his benefits toward me?
13 I will take the cup of
salvation, and call upon the name of the Lord.
14 I will pay my vows unto
the Lord now in the presence of
all his people.
As we partake of food to keep
our physical body strong, so let us take that cup of salvation and call upon God
so our spirit will also be nourished.
Later, Art :-)
From
the ColumbiaRiverGorgeous
May Our Good Lord Bless and Keep YOU....’til we meet again
May Our Good Lord Bless and Keep YOU....’til we meet again
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